It’s no secret. Orgasms are good for you!
There are also different kinds of “oohs” and “ahhs” to be had. But today, we’re looking at the quick ones.
You know, you’re feeling a bit pent up and need a “maintenance release” and aren’t in the mood or don’t have time to get someone to help out.
Here are some ways to help have a fast orgasm.
THE KEY PRINCIPALS
Everyone is different, so what is “fast” for one person, might be slow for another. It’s important to keep these three things in mind…
- How easily orgasmic you are to begin with
- How turned on you are when stimulation starts
- Whether the stimulation is optimized to bring orgasm at all
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This helps with any kind of orgasm. But it can also be a bit of an obstacle if you want to get off quickly – “light speed” and “taking it slow” being at opposite ends of the scale. However, with a bit of mindfulness and practice, you can get yourself into a relaxed state faster, and get to where you need to be quicker.
USE LUBE
It’s okay if you’re horny but aren’t wet! There are a dozen things that can affect a woman’s moisture. So, don’t be scared to dab on a little lube.
USE TOYS
These will be your biggest helpers. Any toy that you enjoy will do the trick, but there are a couple of different vibrating friends that work better than others (at least when it comes to peaking quickly).
- Clitoris Suction – The famous ones are the Womanizer or Satisfyer, but there are plenty of other brands out there with great toys. Basically you fit the open tip around the clit and prepare to have your socks knocked off in second.
- Spiro Tips – They look like tiny magic wands. They have a super-pinpoint knob at the end that concentrates everything from the motor into one magical spot. Warning though, you have to stimulate around the clit first, because going in right off the bat can be too much for the little bean. Still, when you get the hang of it, the orgasm will come flying in.
USE MORE STIMULI
If there are any porn clips or personal fantasies that help out, totally use them. All the shivers and moans you can muster will help. Also, don’t be afraid to touch other parts of your body that give you pleasure – it all builds up to one goal.
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